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Q: Male Depression….?
Is the man in your life not talking…?

A: I am a man….I’m “not talking’ until I take care of my personal business!!! Be patient and I will get back to you with total concentration on you…LOL

Q: What are the symptoms of male depression?
What can be done to help the depressed?
Thanks, appreciate your help.

A: keeping quite and create his own island. good way to help is to leave him alone. when things are fine they will come back to you and you welcome him

Q: Is it normal for adult male depression sufferers to sometimes feel like weeping in despair?

A: Well, as somebody that is a male, and also dealing with depression, I can tell you that letting your emotions show is perfectly normal. I know personally, I am sometimes brought to tears by the smallest little thing. I have always been a rather emotional person, but the depression has made me “ultra-emotional!”

Depression is a tough thing to deal with, it is different for everybody that has it….. I really do wish there was a “perfect answer” I could give you to deal with your depression, but sadly, there is none. The best we can do is take each day one at a time, and learn what is causing our depression, then work to make things better.

I do know that talking things out sometimes helps a lot. If you ever feel the need to vent, or just want to chat with somebody that knows what you are going through, feel free to email me at jam961@yahoo.com perhaps we can help each other beat this thing.

Take care,

john

Q: What are the signs of male depression?
I have lived with my best friend and father of our kids for about 26 yrs. and he is an individual.Nickname-Lunatic,good guy but is seemingly depressed,or not on the same page.Can any one who has been or is there –Help me out? Not a big deal–But Thank’s

A: The symptoms of male depression:

Male in depression feels that the world set them up to fail.
Men report feelings loss of concentration and loss of interest in work and social activities, rather than the emotional feelings of profound sadness, guilt and worthlessness that women acknowledge.
Men in depression are frightened by failures.
Men tend to exhibit more anger and agitated mood states.
Male in depression faces sleeping disorders.
They feel ashamed for who they are.
Male in depression are frustrated if not praised enough and they tend to externalize depression.
They never talk about weaknesses and doubts.
A male in depression may blame his marriage instead of looking at depression as the primary problem.
Uses alcohol, TV, sports, and sex to self medicate.
They may complain more of physical aches and pains.

Q: Talking to a male suffering depression, how can you help?
My BF is suffering depression, how can I help him through this? He’s a manly bloke, but sometimes just can’t see that there’s anything to live for.
Has anyone ever helped someone though this?

A: Yes, I have actually. My ex-boyfriend had SEVERE depression.

I’m sure both of you are going through a really tough time. It’s hard for me to give you concrete advice, because everyone’s situation is a little different, but something I can say is, DON’T DO THIS ALONE. My ex treated me more like a therapist than a girlfriend and it was very emotionally draining on me. I know you love him and want to help as much as you can, but you cannot solve all of his problems and magically make him better! I’d say just be there for him when he’s feeling upset, try to talk him through as much as you can, but maybe suggest that he talks to his doctor and/or parents and looks into finding a psychologist/psychiatrist. Also, if he ever talks about hurting/killing himself, like, actually wanting to do it, again, do not try to take on the situation by yourself! He may need immediate professional help.

I hope that helped, darling! Best of luck to both of you!

Q: Male depression: where can I find good info?
How commonly do men have thyroid or testosterone problems?
My bf is still young … 28.
What antidepressants won’t cause ED in men?

A: If your boyfriend has been diagnosed with both problems he may have something going on with his pituitary gland. Testosterone and thyroid functions can be replaced with meds. If he is depressed that is another symptom of pituitary issue. Has he had his hormone levels checked?

Q: I am a married male , suffering chronic depression, now i have decided to become?
I am a married male , suffering chronic depression, now i have decided to become a father. Could my child be affected by depression too, as genetic. If yes so what shall i do that my child don’t get depression. Please give me your kind answers thank you.

A: Who can say whether or not your child will go through bouts of depression as you are. We are born with different levels of serotonin (happy juice). There a lot of things that can throw you off kilter. You have to remember that children pick up everything their parents do so if they see you acting depressed and having an outlook on life less than pleasurable they will tend to feel the same way. Negativity will beget negativity in a way. Try to always have an upbeat outlook and perhaps don’t let your depression manifest itself around your child. Perhaps having a new life to nurture will help you let go of your depression. Having a child and helping him/her to grow and learn about the world around them can be a wonderful experience. Create a positive environment around the child and they will have less of a chance of falling into the depressed state.

Q: How many women out there believe in Male Post Natal depression?
I know for a fact it does happen. I stood by my partner who had it after our second was born.
Most people say leave the man. No wonder the divorce rate is massive.
A newborn entering our lives is just as huge for the man as it is for the woman.

A: I completely agree that men go through a lot of emotional changes with the birth of a child, it’s a big change! If my man didn’t I would honestly be concerned. The most important thing is to get help in dealing with these feelings if they have made it difficult to function normally. Unfortunately there isn’t a lot of support out there for men in these situations but getting some support is key, even if it just just chillin with a friend and talking about it.

As long as my partner was seeking help with the depression I’d never leave him. It’s not his fault that he’s unwell. If he chooses to stay that way it may be a different situation but if he’s trying, so am I.

Q: Can depression be cured, male hormone replacement work, chronic pain chronic insomnia managed? 20 min, naps?
Disabled Vet for decades suffers from all of the above and can only sleep on one side barely, 20 minute intervals taking up to hours to fall back asleep for another 20 minute interval. Not looking for pity just tips and hints and opinions. Tried most everything been at this most of my life,,, Willing to listen! Tollorant of all and I mean all opiates. Thats what brought down my testosterone levels . Been on hormone therapy for only a week, have not seen change yet? take topically once a day. Doc says for taking pain meds for so long that my testosterone is way down. and antidepressants won’t have an effect if any at all. Which by the way have tried about 15-17 different kinds over the years. I am immune to any and all narcotics now a days no matter the strength and I have done everything,,, I can’t sleep ever , have no social life and don’t care much about it at times ,,,no friends,,,no interest in anything anymore,,,only leave to go to the doctor and not even that sometimes.

A: Have you seen a pain management specialist? They are generally more willing to prescribe the most potent narcotics like Diludid and Fentanyl when there is a need for them, and it sounds like there is a definite need in your case. I felt extremely hopeless about my pain as well until I started seeing a pain doctor. Now my life has turned around completely. This website: www.aapainmanage.org is the American Academy of Pain Management. It has awhole lot of information about pain and pain management, as well as a search page that helps you find an acreditted pain management program and/or doctor in your area. You might also look into clinical trials of pain medication that you may qualify for. These medications may help more than what you are taking now. Overall, I would tell you that yes, chronic pain CAN be managed, it’s all a matter of finding a doctor who is willing to prescribe the medication that you need in a dose that is effective. Some chronic apin patients need doses of medication tha would kill people who don’t have our types of problems. Pain doctors will work to titrate your dosage until you find a maintenance dose that allows you to function but still kills most of the pain. HOwever, you can’t expect to be 100% pain-free. It’s called pain MANAGEMENT and not “pain gone” for a reason, but if you find the right doctor, they will continue top titrate the dose of medication upward until most of your pain is relieved. They can also give you other medication for breakthrough pain, and can use non-pharmocological methods to help your pain. I know that some days I personally feel like I take so many pills I rattle, but it has really been worth it to experience the changes in my life that being pain free (I’m down to a level 1 or 2 pain on a BAD day) has brought about.

If you ever want to talk to someone who has been there, or just need someone to listen, you can e-mail me or IM me and I will be glad to let you bend my ear. I wish you much luck.

Q: Is it dangerous for a 15 year old male to take anti-depression pills?
Yeah I know it sounds stupid but life sucks……what are some disadvantages of anti-depression pills?

A: Yes…………… don’t start that….. he will affect your life forever…… Talk to God and get acquainted with Him……………. He has a plan for your life and can and will give you peace and direct you.

Q: How to recognize male depression?

A: Theres no such things as male depression all depression is the same.Depression and Anxiety are the same things you cant have one without the other.If your always thinking Negative things and you get Anxious Even About going out somewhere then you have depression

Q: male midlife, depression, help?
please help me understand male depression and midlife

A: the guy will buy a sports car or something of the type,try to get a girl half his age, ruin his family life then pretend he is something that he is not,when he hits 60 or so he will realize he wasted his life on dumb stuff and regret missing out on his kids and wife.but then its to late, so he will drink himself to death,so goes the male code.

Q: What is the best way for the male partner to deal with her postpartum depression?
How should the guy prepare for the possibility? And what does he do if she has a bad case?

A: Not all women get post partum depression. Almost every woman goes through the “baby blues” basically that is her hormones trying to get back in sync from the last 9 months or craziness. All i would suggest you do is help her where you can. Be a shoulder or an ear if she needs it. She will be very weepy and upset. Try when you get home from work taking the baby for an hour while she goes for a bubble bath or does something for herself. If she gets PPD, which can appear anywhere from a week to a year after the baby comes, suggest that she seek councelling or see a doctor, especially if she has told you she has thoughts of hurting herself or the baby. Google the symptoms of PPD and just watch for them because they differ from old fashioned baby blues. Good luck and i hope this helps!

Q: Has anyone taking propecia for male pattern baldness experienced sadness or depression as a result of the drug
My son began to take propecia a month ago. He is also using Rogaine. I am sensing a serious emotional reaction – he is sadder, seems depressed, cries easily. These are not his usual personality traits. I am wondering if anyone has experienced this as a result of taking propecia.

A: Propeciasideeffects.com was formed to spread the word about the undocumented potentially irreversible side effects caused by using Propecia (finasteride) 1mg each day. A number of males have suffered erectile dysfunction, impotence, low libido and gynecomestica after using Propecia. The shattering truth for these males is that the side effects did not disappear after ceasing finasteride. The shattering truth is that years later these individuals are still suffering in silence with a seriously reduced quality of life due to erectile dysfunction and impotence. It is not know exactly what causes these changes and how to screen individuals before treatment.

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Q: Male depression symptoms and treatment …HELP ME OUT MEN!?
Can you tell me some of the symptoms of male depression …from a PERSONAL experience? Please do not cut and paste. I have read many articles on this already.I know most men dont want to admit their problem could be depression for fear some might find it a “weakness” but to those of you that have suffered from it …what were your symptoms and how did you treat it? Are their any herbal or natural remedies? vitamins? I am sure my friend is depressed and I know he is so MACHO he wont go see a doc so are their any measures he can take w/o being prescribed meds? And can premature ejaculation be caused by this as well? I know that not being able to maintain an erection is a symptom of depression but i havent heard of premature …being one?
THANKS FOR THE AZZHOLE ANSWERS SOME OF YOU! BUT THE AGENDA ONE SPOKEN OF BY ONE MAN IS TRUE..MY AGENDA IS CALLED CONCERN FOR THE MAN I LOVE!DUH…!AND I MEANT SYMPTOMS OF DEPRESSION IN MEN. AND HECK YES SYMPTOMS ARE VERY DIFFERENT IN MEN. TRY LOOKING INFO UP FROM THE MAYO CLINIC.(ONE OF THE MOST RESPECTED PLACES IN THE COUNTRY! MAYBE I SHOULD SIMPLIFY MY QUESTION.
IF YOU HAVE EVER SUFFERED FROM DEPRESSION AS A MALE,CAN YOU PLEASE TELL ME WHAT SOME OF THE SYMPTOMS WERE AND HOW DID YOU CURE IT! THANKS!

A: There is more than one kind of “depression” – there is conditional depression, like when one loses a job or a mate, and then there is clinical depression – which requires medical intervention – sometimes drugs, possibly psychotherapy.

I’ve been depressed at times, but it was never “clinical”, only I didn’t realize that until recently. My “depression” was always situational – I was really low on money, or deep in debt, or I had lost a girlfriend – things like that.

As to the premature ejaculation being related I don’t know, but I would guess that this is a different problem based simply on being “overly” sexually excited. There are ways to deal with this – the “lesson” I was taught was “just keep going” or “keep it up”. Truly serious clinical situations will probably require some kind of therapy, but giving medical advice is not only not a good idea but it might even be illegal if (yours truly, etc.) you don’t have an M.D. license. If your friend truly has this problem they should seek assistance. I had to get counseling (for vocational counseling and relationship counseling) once, and although it was the toughest decision I ever had to make, it turned out to be one of the BEST decisions I ever made because my life got a LOT better afterwards.

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