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Q: Have you ever accused your boyfriend of cheating?
First of all, people dont just wake up one day and accuse their boyfriend of cheating unless they have some STRONG suspicions.

I’ve dated my bipolar boyfriend “off-and-on” for more than a year now. Last week we “officially” got back together a few days after his 5-week relationship with his live-in boyfriend failed.

Anyways, 2 days into our new relationship I had some very alarming sign that he was cheating.

For example, he’s a TOP yet when he was drunk he text messaged me; “you can come come over but yo ucant f*** me because my a** hurts.”

In my entire life my a** has never “hurt” to the point I would say something LIKE THAT unless I recently bottomed for someone.

Then when I rimmed him the other day he flinched and said “ouch.” He never reacted like that before. Again, why would you react like that unless you got torn up from bottoming.

Thirdly, usually his hole is super tight, but it was gaping wide open when I ate him out last time.

Given all these circumstances, do you think I was right to accuse him of cheating, or was I just being paranoid?

I mean, short of having a video recording, no one ca never “prove” someone cheated.

His reaction to my accusation was a chuckle. Then he said “no matter what I say youre not going to beleive me.” Then he said he wasnt eating right, etc and he denied he cheated on me.

Your thoughts…

A: I would be concerned too. I think you were right in confronting him about it. I mean, he could be using a sex toy on himself, but I don’t get why wouldn’t he mention it if that was the case. Why not just say something like “yeah, I’m a little sore right now because I was using a toy by myself earlier”?

His reaction to your accusation would make me even more suspicious. He’s turning the blame onto you by claiming that you’ll never believe him and that’s the problem, not whatever it is he’s doing to cause your concerns. If he hadn’t been cheating and you accused him, I think his reaction would be different. He would have at least shown some concern about what you said to him and offered to talk about it and reach an understanding.

Q: Do you think he cheated on me?
First of all, people dont just wake up one day and accuse their boyfriend of cheating unless they have some STRONG suspicions.